There’s a running joke in my family that I don’t shut up about diabetes.
This is partially true. I do talk about it an awful lot, whether it’s via this blog or at family gatherings when my devices are alarming (or when the other 2 T1Ds in my family have their tech going off, as well – it’s a downright symphony of sound that’s tough to ignore). While it’s definitely not my go-to discussion topic in most situations, it is something I tend to mention when I’m meeting new people. As I thought about why, exactly, I do this, I realized it came down to three reasons:
- It promotes safety. I feel so much safer knowing that the people around me are aware of my diabetes. They know that the sounds emitting from the devices that I’m wearing on my body are for a medical reason, and it’s not me being rude/inconsiderate with disruptive noises. They know that there may be times in which I need to take a few minutes to address my blood sugar, whether it’s high or low, and that it’s not something they should take personally. And it gives me a chance to let them know what, if anything, they should do in certain scenarios. So it’s not just a matter of looking out for my own safety, it’s also about the people that I’m with and empowering them with the information they need to know about my condition.
- There’s less mystery. Humans are curious by nature. So curious, in fact, that I’ve had dozens of perfect strangers approach me over the years and ask me what “that thing” on my arm is. While this behavior is far from charming, it at least resolves any curiosity someone might have about what it’s like to live with type 1 diabetes and gets a conversation going about it.
- I have an opportunity to defeat diabetes stigma. The best case scenario when I meet someone new and they’re wanting to talk about my diabetes is that it isn’t just a “one-and-done” type of conversation. It evolves into an ongoing one as they ask me increasingly thoughtful questions and discover that what they thought they knew about type 1 diabetes is actually just stigmatized or downright incorrect. It’s a good learning opportunity for new people in my life, as well as a reminder for myself that I likely will always need to be prepared to explain type 1 diabetes to anyone I meet who doesn’t realize what it means to have it.
While some might find it burdensome to bring up diabetes over and over again as jobs change, social circles expand, and living situations evolve, I truly believe that the pros outweigh the cons here. I’ve wracked my brain the entire time while writing this blog post in search of a memory of a time that it didn’t go well, but truthfully I can’t recall a single time in which me bringing up diabetes was met negatively. So from my point of view, why not continue to share it with new people that I meet? As long as I’m not kicking off every introduction with “Hi, I’m Molly and I have type 1 diabetes” (which I absolutely DO NOT do and wouldn’t recommend anyone doing, as it brings to mind a certain character from South Park), then I think it’s good to be upfront about it and let conversations around it flow naturally for the reasons above, at the very least.